I'm always asked, what possibly can I do after break up despite the fact that I'm still crazy about my ex? My solution has always been this, how do you wish to feel? I can see that this is not the answer you've expected but it's weird that a man you used to dear so much, the one you gave everything, turns out offending you the most. As they say, 'It is unthinkable to love and be smart' which causes us all dumb sometime.
It is easy to say love hurts when you are not in pain but when you are in an intimate relationship with a person who isn't to you it's like been in hell. Can you remember all that tenderness... may be those Dandelions flowers... all that 'I you'... those candles and fantacies, is dried up, that's too bad isn't it?
What can you do?
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Calling your ex man is not one of the greatest advice. Requiring a compassion to return is going to hurt you more. How do you act in this place? To start you have to understand that love is nothing but a state of mind, it's how you flavor the person you love. When you change that notion, there is no attraction. Do you understand? Let me make it clear to you for a moment.
Just consider this, before you got involve with your ex boyfriends life, you had no feelings or anything about him. Even if I were to describe him it wouldn't cause you to fee the way you do now. Do you understand why? Because the moment you have passion with a guy, you build emotional response, which is conditioned, in your neurology. The longer you spend time together in a romantic way, the more you reinforce those neuron pathways in your brain which causes you to build more emotions (love).
And then, when you break up with a man there is a strong acquired incitement that makes you feel they way you do now. If you can't get him back then you're a in bullfight. This convinces why you can't carry out your work attentively or why you become out of place about your facial expressions because of nervousness caused by breakupbreak up. This change the way you do activities and your over all manner. A simple way to act with this is to change the way you deal with intense imotion. You have to change how you feel about him.
Let me explain...
Get a book you can find nearby, hold it while facing the front part then turn it some and then observe it from different directions . You will notice that, its appearance changes base on what side you are seeing it. The book didn't change but the way you look at it, changed. Now, I'm not trying to compare your ex with the book. What I'm saying here is this, when you change the way you feel about your ex, breakup will not affects you. You might be dying to understand how to exercise this? The good news is there is a way to help you get over your ex boyfriend quickly. This technique will make you move on after break up completely, you will be stronger than you can think.
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